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What do I do when I have a free moment?

What do I do when I have a free moment?

It is hard for many people to be alone. If we are honest, on some level we all want meaningful companionship or basic human touch. As a parent of a person on the Spectrum, you do not always get tha...

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Thank you for being a friend!

Thank you for being a friend!

YaSheaka Williams has been my friend for 20 years. It goes without saying that when you have known someone that long your life is forever altered by their spirit. I believe that we can literally fe...

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A brief moment in time!

A brief moment in time!

People often ask what is the hardest part about raising a person on the spectrum and I have never waivered with my response- TIME! You always feel time is against you when you live with someone wit...

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I did it Ms. Vanessa!

I did it Ms. Vanessa!

Our daughter has attended Rock the Spectrum – a space where kiddos with Autism learn, receive therapy, play and thrive for about a decade. She loves this place because it is filled with so ma...

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Bright Lights Big City

Bright Lights Big City

Sensory issues are often challenging for persons on the spectrum. From a pragmatic standpoint it is often difficult to plan ahead of time. AND you truly cannot ascertain which noises or lights or s...

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I am GOING

I am GOING

Every year we have the same battles with our daughter. Like most people on the Autism Spectrum- Routine matters! For years our family spent a full week with our Aunt in DC. We loved the time away a...

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Back to LIFE Back to Reality

Back to LIFE Back to Reality

So I have done this before. Take a daughter to college Handle the change in energy that occurs Bring the daughter back Watch her come Back to LiFE and Back to Reality! I was unsure how Emersen woul...

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BE PATIENT- It All Works Out In Time

BE PATIENT- It All Works Out In Time

It went so very fast! We just dropped our daughter off and now here I am helping her clear out for winter break. There are no clear words to express my feelings about our daughter’s first quarter c...

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Friends

Friends

This is my last week home as an empty nestor for the Winter Quarter. I must admit I have been Missing In Action (MIA). So often parents on the Spectrum are scheduled from the start of the day to th...

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Thank you KBJ

Thank you KBJ

I had one of the greatest evenings of my life this week. I had the honor of meeting Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson, the first African American Woman to sit on the United States Supreme Court. It was...

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